It is "dejavu all over again"! It seems that every Elul we get excited, make decisions, have great plans for the year, and then here we are a year later back in the same spot! And some of us have been doing this for a lot of years! How do we break the cycle and effect real change? And if we are Rabbaim/Moros and/or parents - how do we get our students/children to grow? (And if you are the student and/or child - how do you get beyond simply keeping your Rebbe/Morah/Parent happy, and effect real personal change in your own private life?